http://www.celebpulp.com/more-celebrity-break-up-rumors/
check out this website =) you are able to check ou latest celebrities break up rumours. We always notice and gossip about celebrities daily life as they are the center of attraction. From all their news, getting married and divorce is one of the most common news. Breaking up and get hitch again with another person seems so over rated. It is as if they can get marry today and divorce as fast as on the next day.
This are a few celebrities on the latest update:
Reports are that Rose McGowan and her fiance, director Robert Rodriguez, have broken off their engagement…..again! The couple broke it off and got back together again last summer as well. They have been engaged since October of 2007, and apparently no reason has been given for the split this time
Comedienne Sarah Silverman is not fucking Matt Damon, and is also definitely not with her on again off again boyfriend Jimmy Kimmel. The two funny people are off for sure this time, because Sarah is reportedly dating comedian Rob Huebel, and has been for months! Ouch Jimmy!
Rumor has that Jamie Kennedy and his way out of his league girlfriend Jennifer Love Hewitt have called it quits, after rumors of his infidelity have surfaced. Apparently Mr. Kennedy has been seeing his ex-girlfriend Shannon Funk on the side! Kennedy is blaming his now fired assistant, Miguel, for creating the rumor that he cheated. Kennedy denies all infidelity rumors and is working on patching things up with Jennifer.
The divorce and annulment rate in Singapore is estimated, 7.5 per 1,000 married resident (average of male and female) and has a total of 7,220 cases, in year 2008. The number of divorce and annualment cases has been increasing since 1980 which is only 3.2 per 1,000 married resident and total 1,721 cases.
Results are from www.singstat.gov.sg, you may check out the website for exact statistic and probably other interesting statistic too =)
I am very sure that, the increase in divorce cases do not happen in Singapore only. Comparing to USA, Singapore has a lower divorce rate.
However, why more couples are divorcing in such an alarming rate? (In Singapore)
Maintaining a relationship is much harder than getting into a relationship. (I bet all of you agree)
Here, I would like to point out some ways you can maintain your relationship through good communication.
1) Self Disclosure
Learn to share information about yourself and family that you will not tell others but only your family and partner. Your partner will be able to under you more. Moreover, it is able to exhibits trust and commitment to the relationship.
2) Conflict
Conflicts occur as we have different in perception. Conflict can either improve your relationship or break your relationship. However, we have to learn to overcome this conflict by communication and interact with each other. Talk things out and solve it rationally. I believe by accommodating each other will solve the problem.
3) Relational Needs
You need to indentify the short term and long term needs and determine to realize any unmet needs. For example; go for a date at least once a week, as one party might constant assurances in the relationship.
Hey guys =) You may like to comment about some relational needs in a relationship or your opinions in maintaining a relationship.
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Some relational needs that is important in maintaining a relationship are: security, respect.
ReplyDeleteFirstly, without the sense of security, a romantic relationship will fall apart as soon as it started and it will be very hard for any couples to maintain a relationship if they do not trust each other. And to increase the sense of security in one relationship, we need to understanding our partner, support each other emotionally and provide room for our partner to express their feeling freely and safely regardless of the situation.
Secondly, mutual respect is important. Make and keep clear agreements. Respect the differences between yourself and your partner. Do not expect your partner to agree with you on every issue. Reach a mutual agreement or plan, and then commit to it. For instance, if you say you're going to meet your partner for lunch at noon, be on time, or call if you're going to be late.
HEY MICHELLE GREAT ENTRY.
ReplyDeleteAnyways, yeah it is true that divorce and annulment rates have risen in the past few years as compared to last time. However, who do u think we should blame for this? Increasing percentage of career women or the diplishing traditions and cultures in our societies these days? I think they are many influences to this issue. & at the end of the day it leads to individuals opinion and needs.
Maybe another huge point of the society affecting one is also a factor. When divorces wasn't normal and conventional, being seperated from your spouse was a huge issue dieregarded by the society. However, now due to several reasons its become so normal and is not astonishing at all. Thus an invidual follows the society's take and rules on this issue and goes by the trend of it being normal in today's world.
Yes =) divorce case is such a norm now, in this contemporary society.
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ReplyDeleteI think people are living in a very mundane lifestyle and thus, seek new company all the time. Thus, they meet new people and gain new interest in them. That may be one of the reason why divorce rate are on a uphill trend.
ReplyDeleteI feel that trust is the key to a good relationship. Else, you will be suspicous with one another everyday. Trying to tie your partner down. So,, trust your partner =)
ReplyDeleteIts always easy to fall for someone, but never easy to stay in love with them, or even to maintain a relationship.
ReplyDeleteMaintaining a relationship with only your effort, isn't gonna solve anything. It takes two hands to clap.
And i think there are countless reasons why a relationship fails. We can never stop talking or thinking about it.
Personal space, focusing too much on future, forcing your partner to change, blaming your partner, jealousy, faithfulness, communication and trust. And the list goes on and on.
If you think avoiding these points above will help to work things out in a relationship, you're wrong, but right in a certain way.
Like i said, it takes two hands to clap. If you're the only one putting effort to make this relationship last, it will never gonna last.
it is never easy to maintain a relationship or so called a marriage.
ReplyDeleteIn Singapore, we are living in a fast paced socity. Everyday everyone is working for their own career and goals. We are so called busy to maintain a relationship. That's why the more the marriage should have trust and give each other their own space of freedom.
totally agree =)
ReplyDeleteprobably now a days, people who are getting married are just for the sake of it. they do not know each other well or whether they suits each other before they get married. there are alot of factors why a couple wants to break up.
I feel that relationship is like a bank. The more you put into the account, the happier you will get, but it has to be fair like how much you're putting into this account, you want a fair bit out of the other person's account too.
ReplyDeleteSo therefore, in order to have a healthy relationship, both accounts have to be balanced! :D